Mastering The Self:
Leadership Must-Be's

What separates a convincing performance from a charade is the degree to which the actors are able to subordinate themselves to the role they are playing. When the director and the actors put themselves at the service of the script, they will be able to move people. Similarly, leaders of organizations subordinate their egos and their personal issues to the work at hand. To inspire others and to obtain lasting results, leaders must be authentic, courageous, consistent and emotionally intelligent. While there are many examples of leaders who have created short-term success without embodying all four of these qualities, there are no examples of companies who have taken their companies from good to great without evidence of all four.iii

AUTHENTIC
1 not false or copied: genuine and original, as opposed to something that is a fake or reproduction; 2 trustworthy: shown to be true and trustworthy.

This state of being is about being self-aware and honest with yourself and others. It means being who you are without trying to hide behind charades, politics, popularity or half-truths. It is as much about being comfortable in your own skin as it is about saying what you mean. In building trust, authenticity is the cornerstone.

COURAGEOUS
1 quality of being brave: the ability to face danger, difficulty, uncertainty, or pain without being overcome by fear or being deflected from a chosen course of action.

As we've all heard, courage doesn't mean being fearless; it means feeling afraid and doing it anyway. Most excellent leaders need a large component of courage to get through any day. Possessing courage refers to being ready to do things that may not be popular, easy, or clear, but are nonetheless the right things to do.

CONSISTENT
1 constancy: the ability to maintain a particular standard or repeat a particular task with minimal variation. 2 coherence: reasonable or logical harmony between parts.

This is about being internally consistent, about walking the talk. Without this internal consistency, leaders will crack under pressure and find it hard to sustain the trust of the people around them. A person who is consistent will also demonstrate a persistence that is required to embed real change in an organization. Consistency and high principles go hand in hand.

EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT
the ability to manage ourselves and our relationships effectively; to resonate appropriately with others without being derailed by our emotional reactions.

In one groundbreaking study after the next we know that self-awareness, self-management, social awareness and social skills of the leader determine business climate and results. Furthermore six drivers of climate or working atmosphere (Flexibility, Responsibility, Standards, Rewards, Clarity, Commitment) are positively correlated to four leadership styles and negatively correlated to two others. An emotionally intelligent leader is one who demonstrates emotional intelligence through appropriately choosing resonant leadership approaches. ii

 

  1. All definitions are from: http://encarta.msn.com/dictionary Encarta (R) World English Dictionary [North American Edition] © & 2003 Microsoft Corporation.
  2. "Leadership That Gets Results," Daniel Goleman. Harvard Business Review, March-April 2000Stephen R. Covey, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People (New York: Simon & Schuster, 1990), p. 289.
  3. Michael Treacy and Fred Wiersema, The Discipline of Market Leaders: Choose Your Customers, Narrow Your Focus, Dominate Your Market (Perseus Publishing, 1997).

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